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Cityswoon: it's speed dating's cooler, more adventurous cousin.
- Brace yourself, it is time to meet someone amazing.
- Experience a new era of speed dating, where you meet your best matches, selected out of the crowd.
- At every event, you have a 95% chance of meeting someone who you are attracted to, and a 90% chance of finding one or more mutual ★★★★★ five star matches.
- CitySwoon also has online dating - these matches are powered by the real-world event machine learning, enhancing your online matches astronomically.
- Powered by patented algorithmic matching technology.
- This is the ultimate dating experience with the highest success rate recorded.
Speed Dating Near Me:
Displaying all cities with events in the United States
New York
There are literally millions of single people in magnificent New York! Speed date, virtually or in person, and be algorithmically matched to everyone you meet.
Los Angeles
The city of glamour and sun! Speed date, virtually or in real life, and meet locals from Downtown, Hollywood, Santa Monica and more.
San Diego
Sunny San Diego! Check out the really fun singles events where you can date other people in your beautiful city, out or from home!
San Francisco
Gorgeous San Francisco. Speed date using a high tech, patented matching algorithm, to find you the best singles in San Francisco.
Sacramento
Beautiful, laid back Sacramento, with your wineries, brewries and fantastic food. You can speed date the very best locals matched to you.
San Jose
The capital of Silicon Valley, with more millionaires per capita than any other U.S. city! Speed date the very best locals, matched to you.
Washington DC
You live in the eclectic cultural hub that is DC. Meet other local singles, matched to you with our mega successful patented algorithm!
Chicago
Chicago, the beautiful, windy city. This is the perfect time to meet someone amazing virtually or in real life where you are algorithmically matched.
Seattle
Dynamic Seattle is bursting with culture and surrounded by nature. We work hard to make sure you meet the very best people in Seattle.
Philadelphia
Birthplace of the nation! Meet other Philadelphia singles, in real life or online, at speed dating events where you are algorithmically matched together.
Boston
The city on the hill! Where is Boston's most eligible single (i.e. YOU), most likely to meet and fall in love with someone new? Dating right here!
Miami
Beautiful beaches, non-stop night life and beautiful weather, what more could you ask for! Date the locals who are matched exactly to you!
Fort Lauderdale
With magnificent beaches, art and culture. You meet the people who are algorithmically matched exactly to you, in your stunning city.
Tampa
With breathtaking beaches, vibrant art, and rich culture, Tampa is the perfect backdrop for going on mini-dates with singles matched to you.
Austin
Live music capital, delicious food, and warm hospitality Austin has it all! Experience real-life matches in this eclectic Texan city!
Houston
Space city charm, culture, and cuisine Houston has it all! Date the locals, matched to you in real life, in this vibrant Texan metropolis!
Dallas
Bustling arts scene, cowboy culture, and southern cuisine Dallas offers a rich experience! Meet locals, perfectly matched to you, in this dynamic Texan hub!
Minneapolis
Vibrant arts, stunning lakes, and friendly Midwestern charm connect with other locals who share your vibe in this dynamic city.
Portland
Where creativity meets nature from lush parks to vibrant art scenes, find your community in this eclectic city filled with makers, dreamers, and outdoor enthusiasts.
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Frequently Asked Questions About Speed Dating:
What is speed dating, and how does it work?
So, you're single, and ready to mingle? - but you're sick of swiping, and you want depth. That's where speed dating comes in. Think of it like a real-life dating app, where you get to meet a bunch of eligible singles in one fun-filled evening.
The concept is simple - you attend an event, typically held in a bar or restaurant, where you're given a set amount of time to chat with a potential love interest. Usually, you'll have around five to ten minutes to get to know each person before moving on to the next.
After the event, you'll let the organizers know who you're interested in, and if they feel the same way, you'll be matched up. It's like a romantic game of musical chairs, except you're not left standing alone at the end!
It's a great way to meet new people. For speed dating on steroids, try Speed Dating 2.0 with CitySwoon. It's incredibly fun - think algorithmic matching meets live events!
What is Cityswoon, and how is it different to traditional speed dating?
Cityswoon: it's speed dating's cooler, more adventurous cousin. Picture this: instead of being cooped up in some dimly-lit back room, chatting with every Tom, Dick, and Harry, you're out in the main part of the bar with everyone else, dating a handpicked group of singles. Yup, that's right - no more speed dating roulette. Cityswoon uses fancy algorithms to match you with compatible folks based on personality, values, and interests. It's like having Cupid as your personal dating assistant.
But wait, there's more! Cityswoon doesn't just set you up with some rando and call it a day. Oh no, they take it to the next level. You see, after each date, you give live feedback. And guess what? They use that info to tweak your matches on the very same night. It's like a choose-your-own-adventure novel, but with actual humans. And the stats don't lie: a staggering 95% of peeps meet someone they're attracted to, and 90% score at least one 5-star mutual match.
So ditch the humdrum world of traditional speed dating and give Cityswoon a whirl. With unique venues and a more laid-back vibe, you're bound to have a night you won't forget. And who knows? You might even meet someone who changes your world. Now go on, get out there and have a blast!
What questions should I ask at a speed dating event?
Psst, here's a big secret: everyone's favorite topic of conversation is themselves! When people start talking about themselves, they generally feel that you are a great conversationalist.
At the start of each date, you'll be wanting to help put your date at ease - everyone is nervous at the start! So it is a great idea to ask questions that are easy to answer, just to get the conversation flowing, such as "Do you have pets?", "Where's your hometown?", "Have you been to an event like this before?". After each answer, you can ask more questions, so that they can elaborate on their answers.
As the date progresses, you can learn more about them with fun questions like "How would your friends describe you?", or "What is your favorite food?" or "What do you enjoy doing?".
You don't necessarily need to steer away from topics like religion or politics, but it could be hard to build up to deep topics in the 10 minutes or so that you have to chat. You will need to find out the answers to these questions eventually, if you like them, but you might find you naturally get to these questions at the bar, after the dating, or at a later date.
How should I prepare for speed dating?
Prep like a pro. Before you dive into the thrilling world of speed dating, you've got to get your game face on. Start by choosing the perfect outfit - something that screams confidence but keeps you comfy. After all, you'll be chatting it up with a bunch of potential matches, so you might as well look and feel fabulous.
Next, flex those conversation muscles. The secret is that everyone likes to talk about themselves. So, ask your date some easy questions, to help them relax, and let the conversation flow from there. Everyone will be feeling nervous at the start of the night - but will start to relax after the first dates.
The trick is to be genuine and kind. While you're schmoozing with the singles, remember that authenticity is key. Ditch the cheesy pick-up lines and just be yourself. Trust me, they'll appreciate it. And hey, even if you don't find your soulmate, at least you'll leave with some great stories to tell. So get out there, enjoy the ride, and remember - it's not a race, it's a journey. Happy speed dating!
How can I find a speed dating event near me?
Over half a million people have attended a CitySwoon Speed Dating 2.0 event. Click your city and you will find a list of local events near you.
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Happy dating!